She Is Not Pulling Away From You. This Is Perimenopause.

Something has changed, and you cannot work out what. She is not sleeping. She is irritable in a way that does not match the size of what is happening. She snapped at you over something small, and then seemed as surprised by it as you were. She is exhausted but restless. She does not want to be touched the way she used to, and when you ask if everything is okay, she says she is fine, or she says she is tired, or she says she does not know. You can tell that last one is the truest of the three. You have started wondering whether it is you. Whether you did something. Whether she is unhappy with the relationship, or falling out of love, or hiding something. Here is what is most likely happening: she is in perimenopause. And there is a good (...)

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